Ex- scenes, emos, punks ect, how did you outgrow your alternative fashion sense?

People say it's part of growing up, and teenage rebellion, but I believe there's an answer to everything. Did y'all find something new? Sorry for the southern slang I'm from Florida lmao. But I think way too much. I used to have a Punky flair since I saw my first concert, then my teacher wanted me to wear suits! Lmao.